We have been home for 3 months now, and it is going really well with Olivia's bonding with me. Every week we notice how she is gradually becoming more and more relaxed. The nights are more calm now, she never clings to me at home anymore, and when we are out, she spends little effort checking out where I am. But so far, Dad is still someone to play with, and his comforting cuddles are not accepted if Olivia is upset - even when Mum is not around. She has also not yet accepted that I leave the house without her, and this is the next big boundary we are hoping to cross soon in preparation for when MAternity leave turns into PAternity leave in 2 months from now.
Olivia does love to hang out with Dad though. Here they are reading books before bedtime.
There is no doubt that Olivia loves music, and next week we are going to check out a music playschool in the local area, which I hope to go to once a week, so that Olivia gets the opportunity to spend more time with other kids ... Here are a couple of clips of her enjoying music at home :-) We are looking forward to Aunty Lauren coming over to join the party next month..
Every week is a mix of playing at home, visiting Dorthe & Janus or other friends, going to the pool, or meeting with the 3 other adoptive Mum's and their kids, which we have formed a playgroup with. Here, we take a trip to the deer park with Dorthe and Janus. Olivia and Janus love to hang out, and Janus always gives her cuddles and wants to hold her hand.
Here we play with soap bubbles in the garden - but Olivia thinks it is more funny to say "oh-ooooh" an pour out the soap to watch my reaction...
For a long time, Olivias vocabulary was Mum, Dad, cat, dog and bird. But she is really starting to copy many words now, and if you hang out with her long enough, you can decifer what the "baa", "boo" and "nee"s mean... the switch to using words in stead of hand gestures has, however, caused some frustration, e.g. when Mum does not understand that "boo" means "spoon" even after repeating it 20 times...
It's been a wet summer, and snails and slugs are abundant everywhere around the garden. Olivia is fascinated, but also a bit scared of the slimy friends on the wall by the stairs.
A bit more friendly are the worms, slugs and snails she makes from play dough